Zen and the Mercurial Archetype — Part IV
The moment you exceed someone’s energy, you create debt.
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The moment you exceed someone’s energy, you create debt.
There is a specific moment in every unstable connection when your dignity is still intact, but your nervous system is about to begin bargaining.
Whether permitting or facilitating non-therapeutic circumcision of male infants without medical necessity or the child’s consent is consistent with Sections 7 and 15 of the Canadian Charter of Rights and Freedoms, interpreted in light of Canada’s obligations under the UN Convention on the Rights of the Child (CRC).
If you open up, you risk being used. If you stay closed, you risk never being loved.It’s a structural problem in how intimacy, masculinity, and trust intersect.
There is a line from the 1965 film Guide, delivered by the reluctant swami Raju in his closing monologue, that lives quietly in the back of my mind:
Imagine a mail workflow that successfully executes, but certain emails simply vanish. When two emails (A and B) arrive, the system processes Email A twice and ignores Email B entirely. This happens because the code relies on a false invariant: it assumes a single-item batch, using a .first() command that accidentally pulls the first item’s data even when a second item is present.
A published intake address appears to offer a simple contract: send a message, and the receiving system will either accept it or reject it. SMTP even has a vocabulary for this. A server can refuse delivery during the transaction and return an error that the sender can see.